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| it's not easy, i nv thought it will be.. |
| Wednesday, June 27, 2007 |
well, i feel that life is really not easy.. the life that we choose to lead and the path we choose to take.. all these decisions must be taken into precise considerations.. it is difficult if u go thru the wrong path, leading to consequences that u might not have imagine.. i always say life is abt choices, and how important it is to make the right choice, go thru the right way.. and now, i would like to emphasize on it again.. it really is very important..
in life, we have so many expectations, we have expectations in our friends, family, and also the things we do, which includes our work.. we set expectations, so that we could work towards our target.. everyone have got different expectations to the same thing, because everyone's thinking is unique and no 2 person in life is identical.. so we shldnt expect everyone else's thinking to be the same as ours..
relationship with family and friends are also very important part of life, they affect ur attitude, ur actions and especally ur thinking.. love is another thing.. its a beautiful part of life.. but it isnt easy to get someone who really support ur aspiration and point of view.. they come and go, if u lose them, u might lose them forever without having a second chance, so if u happen to come by one, think twice.. it can change ur life forever, good or bad, only u can judge.. but please dun regret, because u made the choice and it was certainly a bad one..
why am i writing all these? i dunno.. maybe im really just reminding myself.. |
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| little bryan |
| Friday, June 22, 2007 |
bryan is gonna be 2 years old in a few days time.. so fast!
he is such an adorable boy.. athough sometime he is a little naughty.. a little mischievious.. a little too smart.. but he is just so cute.. no wonder he is the undisputed "baobei" in the family.. hah~ but soon, someone will be fighting that title with him.. my sis is pregnant with another baby! i guess its like coming to the forth month now.. haha! "baobei" will soon have a sibling and we shall see how he cope with it~ hahahaha!
some pictures of little bryan..     |
| posted by graky @ 3:43 PM |
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| stars |
| Thursday, June 21, 2007 |
i have got this thinking that stars might be the best companion, well, mainly because they are always around... and when u are so oody, so sad and felt that u needed to talk.. i think u got 3 choices, call a friend, talk to urself in the mirror or just simply stare at the stars and start pouring out the sour..
maybe this is my way of pouring out my heart.. well.. but i really think stars are beautiful.. once, when i as still working in macs, my dad told me that was a mini leoni, which is also known as a meteor shower.. where shooting stars pour like rain..
that night, i hang around in the restaurant after my closing duties.. i went to the roof top and lie there alone staring at the stars.. it was nice.. i saw 10 odd shooting stars on that night alone..
but the best came last yar when i went to australia for an exercise.. it was absolutely marvellous.. it was totally different from singapore.. the amount of stars was like triple the amount we could see in singapore..
i guess its because we were at the training ground and lighting was really low.. slping on the star was a great experience.. imagine looking at the sky full of stars before u slp.. great isnt it! |
| posted by graky @ 12:57 AM |
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| random |
| Wednesday, June 20, 2007 |
im someone that hide my feelings, that will not let others know how i feel.. i feel terrible, i feel insecure abt my feelings.. i hate it...
im afraid.. but i dun wanna to be.. i wanna be able to accept things as they come, i dun wanna hide my feelings.. maybe i need a helping hand or maybe i shld be like beatles's famous song, let it be.... |
| posted by graky @ 2:00 AM |
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| life |
| Monday, June 11, 2007 |
so wat is life all about?
is life abt making the most money so that u will be able to enjoy a luxury life?
or is life about making full use of it no matter how hard it is gonna be..
maybe life is abt being neutral, being financially secured yet making full use of it thru experiencing new things..
but i guess life can nv be fair, so its probably either way.. thats no neutral..
i just happen to feel that life can actually be more meaningful if we choose to help others.. maybe earning and enjoying a luxury life just isnt me.. of cos, i would hope that i could be financially secured..
i really admire the determination of social workers that work hard to help others.. i guess helping others is the true joy in one's life.. they put their heart and soul, to just hope that tml, another person could live without worries.. they put in time and energy, so that another person could be of good use to the society..
i hope to be one of them one day.. i hope i could do more than giving up my seats to the elderly, helping a lost child.. i hope someday, i will be able to contribute more.. life is not alays abt wealth and fame, wat matter most is we enjoy the way we live our life at the end of it..
for me, helping others in any way, is an enjoyment.. |
| posted by graky @ 3:52 AM |
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| the upbringing, violence? |
| Sunday, June 03, 2007 |
today while i was taking a bus home from takashimaya, i happened to came across this playful kid.. when he got on the seat in front of me, he started slapping on the seat.. as the seats are quite dusty, smoke of dirt particles could be seen.. so he grew more curious and startd doing it repeatly..
the lady beside mi got very irritated as it was really very unhealthy, so she requested the boy to stop in the presence of the boy's mother.. his mother was also reprimanding him at that time.. but he just smile away and carry on doing it..
this suddenly prompt mi to think back to my childhood whereby whenever i did something wrong outside (outta home), my dad will whisper to me that i will get it when i get home.. and each time it was true and i ended up with lotsa cane marks..
but with the caning was the lecture abt the mistake.. my dad is a very impulsive person.. i used to be caned alot owhen i was young.. i guess that explain for my build.. hahaha.. training from young..
anyway, as the the boy continue to repeat his action.. i was thinking wats the best way to teach him.. shld his parents hit him for his mistakes or shldnt them... i guess its always dilemma for a parent.. some adore their kid so much that they protect them against anything, and everything, forget abt hitting them..
but from my personal point of view, i think where violence shld be minimised, there is still a need to react from different situation.. i think violence can only be useful when u do not use it too often, and when u use it.. make sure the kid know wat the hell is wrong.. if u hit him just for the moment of anger, u are one hell of a screwed person..
wats the point when he do not know wat he/she had done wrongly.. its important for them to realise their mistake and learn a lesson from it.. they need to know and to not repeat the same mistake again...
well, thats my personal view.. till then :) |
| posted by graky @ 4:37 AM |
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